Sex and the City - Season 1 Episode 4 - Valley of the Twenty-Something Guys

 2:36 That takes me back - meeting friends at over-crowded bars where you can barely hear each other

5:26 Okay, So Carrie gets to the club and receives a phone message from Big saying he's not gonna be able to meet her there. She goes in and meets a cute 20-something guy and so chats him up a bit, touching his tongue in a gregrious cheeky manner. Then Big shows up 

She thought the message said he wasn't coming. He thought he said he'd make it for an hour. Carrie says 'Well yeah, but then you said that...' - So it appears that she heard his message as he perceived it, and she gave it spin that meant 'he's not showing up at all'. 

Judgement - This is on her. 

8:48 Are men in their 20s the new designer drug? Whaaaaaat?

11:27 Carrie is notoriously late. Here someone rings her, she chooses to answer it despite being moments from leaving, before they can speak says something like ' yeah whoever this is I can't talk I'm late for a drink thing' . This despite blowing off her friend Miranda and her editor for some guy. She then organises to pick up Charlotte, so she can pull in Miranda and Sam to help Charlotte so Carrie can go off and do her own thing. On the one had it's nice, because she's rallying the troops for Charlotte but at the same time it's kind of strange too, like Charlotte could have done that herself. Overall it's a nice thing, but it feels like she's palming her friend onto her other friends - and what about them - are they not busy? Did they drop everything because carrie wanted them to. And how did carried explain this all to them in the allotted time of 10minutes to get to Charlottes house? She doesn't have a mobile so how did she set this all up...?

12:20 Carrie - Do not smoke in a cab - That's so disrespectful

14:00 How interesting. Carries friend calls her with romantic problems, and Big had the same thing, but Big invited him to the date. That was kinda odd. 

17:30 I LOVE hearing about this dudes dream. Lol. So funny. And his apartment is so childish looking. So funny. She's like 'Wow... Where the hell am I?'


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